Q: I am in a long-term, committed relationship. We own everything jointly. Is it better in the case of illness or death to be married? — D., 80, Leesburg

A: As long as all of your accounts are titled properly to pass without probate and you have all of necessary legal documents in place in the case of illness, then there is no legal reason to get married. — Nancy Hecht

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